The jackhammering in my building continues in earnest…I went to Target yesterday and forgot to buy the milk that I went there to buy (and I had a list….) Federer lost… I got three calls from, I believe, Azerbaijan in the middle of the night therefore screwing up any chance of a good sleep…
But on the bright side:
I am eternally grateful to my Daughter’s friends and her high school classmates. In NYC there is a tradition called “bedding”. Your friends come over to your house and put snacks the color of your college (my daughters college is blue and grey so she got oreos, graham crackers, pretzel m&m’s, and I don’t remember what other blue wrapping) and they make a cake or cupcakes with the school colors, and put all your merch out, and balloons….it’s really cute. And to see them hiding in her room waiting for her to come home from her babysitting job….yelling surprise….and to hear nine girls laughing and giggling….I will miss these groups of kids hanging out in my house.
She also got her yearbook yesterday and kids started to sign. Last night we read through, and I couldn’t help buy tear up a little reading all the sweet things these kids had to say about her, seeing her through there eyes….grateful that she had a relatively charmed high school experience…
I had something on my mind for awhile. I wrote it out. I feel better. Sometimes it’s that simple.
In a nutshell, the week that was: they started doing work on the garage attached to our building. Jackhammering five hours a day. Good times. It’s like a continual mini earthquake. Maybe we should charge people, like a ride. Two of my friends lost pets, one a dog younger than mine, a dog that the family got because they saw our dog and just knew they were meant to be dog owners. My daughter did win a small scholarship, so money in a plus!!
Gratitude: I am grateful I bought a full 2019 planner. I had thoughts of winging it this month, as my old planner ended yesterday and the new planners all start in July, but as June 2019 sets out to be the busiest month in recorded history, I need space to plan and deliberate.
Calm: I have had a pretty easy ride with my teen. But of course, with college on the horizon, she is beginning to feel that dreaded push/pull of adult v child. Yesterday she was in a &*^%& mood, and I took 3(or perhaps 300) deep breaths and reminded myself that in a few months she will be gone, and I didn’t get baited by the sarcastic and arrogant hooks she was flailing about.
Lots to bother me this week….including an hour and a half with spotify because my account got hacked….really…spotify…. but also lots of good:
My Daughter received two writing awards this week. Obviously grateful for that, but also grateful that even though awards were presented at two separate ceremonies on the same day, they were at different times and we were able to make both.
My calming moment was sleeping in a little longer when I had a sinus headache. Sometimes you take the medicine and lie back down for a bit. Calming instead of rushing.
This has been a busy, yet wonderful, couple of weeks.
I am most grateful for pineapple. I recently read that pineapple has some property that helps relieve you of sinus congestion. So as I had a stuffy nose and post nasal drip thing going on, I went out and got pineapple (which happened to be super delicious) and I felt a little better. Not sure of the science behind it, but it was tasty. Obviously, also grateful to growers pf pineapple and those who are able to deliver it to my not so tropical locale.
The most calming thing I did this week was to leave my house fifteen minutes early so I could get to a park and read outside on a beautiful day before I had an appointment. Fifteen minutes was just enough time for me not to feel rushed leaving, yet still give me a little time in the sun.
Enough said about the new age and the first day of my 56th year…..here’s what I’m grateful for:
- Thank you to all my friends and family for the lovely birthday wishes!!!
- Thanks to my daughter who took time out from AP studying to write my blog and go out to dinner
- Spicy Penang Curry from my fave Thai place- Jaiya
- Mille Crepe cake from Lady M. Best. Cake. Ever.
- My new hydroponic garden. In 5-7 days I’ll have basil, thyme, dill and mint.
- Getting to celebrate my Dad’s birthday with him last Sunday
- Getting to see my friend K, recovering from brain surgery and looking great!!
- My Daughter’s best friend got into her first choice college on appeal!!!
- Two years blogging!
In all, it’s been a great week, and was a great year!!
Been stupidly distracted the past few weeks so my weekend posts have been forgotten…
But today, I must talk about my huge gratitude for the week.
My wonderful writing friend K had a brain tumor. I say had because it was successfully removed this week. Though she is still in pain she is recovering well and the Doctor is pleased with the results.
This was a good week.
You all know that this week did not go exactly as I wanted it to… But we keep going…
- My Husband turned 50 this week!
- He finally got his AARP card so I am no longer the butt of the age jokes
- lotion for dry skin
- A Christmas tree that is not too big
- the subways running when I need them to
- My writing friend K who called me with a great writing idea
- My friend G who listened to me whine when I awaited my daughters college results
- Mt daughter winning a High School service award
- Beautiful holiday cards with pictures of children
On Saturdays I try to reflect back on the things that were good during the week- no matter how large or small. I need to stop and savor the moment every now and then, even if I was unable to buy Queen tickets.
- My Daughter was named one of the NYC PSAL (public school athletic league) MVP Scholar Athletes
- My Sister’s birthday
- My daughters friends and my friends children are beginning to get college acceptance letters
- warm scarves
- celebrating Hanukah with my family
- Finally figuring out how to spell Hanukah
- Potato pancakes with chunky applesauce
- Holiday Music in small doses
- Netflix and Amazon Prime Video
- That others are worried about the new WordPress Editor
- My friends who keep pulling me back in if I start to wander away
I’m trying to remember to focus on what is good in my life, so on Saturdays, I think about the little things and the big things that got me through the week, and through life. Some weeks are easier than others.
- George Bush- RIP
- My Daughter’s first marking period grades
- Attending my last parent teacher conference- it went well and I never have to go to one again!
- My writing group- they motivate me and make me better in all ways
- free shipping
- Looking for an item for my daughter and realizing they have one left and it’s in her size
- Lord and Taylor and all the years we went to visit their Christmas Windows- (they are about to close the Fifth Avenue NYC location)
- Really good cry
- nail file
- Finding the perfect song to suit your mood
- The support of my blog friends and my other friends- Thank you
It was a pretty good week. Odd, but it’s difficult to pin down why a week was better than another. Yet there you go. Enjoy you seder to all who partake. Happy Passover.
- my ability to read fast when I’m trying to finish a book in two days
- my ereader for easy access to books
- google maps for when I get lost in the city I’ve lived in for 30 years
- University of Chicago for best intro letter ever
- WordPress scheduler
- Rusty Staub. You were one of my favorite baseball players. RIP
- Final Four (go Nova)
- Opening Day baseball 2018
- Mets win on opening day
- The ability to say that the Mets are in first place
- Having cash when you realize you are at a cash only restaurant
- Aloe tissues
- ointment to heal my burnt finger